Is it okay to hookup with your best freind?

Started by Maximus, Jan 5, 2016, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Maximus
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    Maximus Skeppy

    Jan 5, 2016
    Thoughts?
     
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

    Jan 5, 2016
    Of the same sex or different?

    Either way if you can both handle it and dont let it get in between your friendship, what's a bit of shared fluids?
     
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    different sex
    shes female
     
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

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    yeah, f--- her, why not

    wont damage ur friendship, if you dont behave like a jealous b---- when she tells you about other guys
     
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    Immy yikes

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    Yeah, if she is your best friend its a bonus since you'll probably be a tight couple
     
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    I did and turned into a relationship after a few months. After almost 4 years it was over. I don't dislike her but the friendship we had is gone

    You do have a great connection already which can be great.
     
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    Soldier big cuntry's alias

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    Yeah but we both know this isn't about you
     
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    itd be the other way around
    i dont get attatched easily
     
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    keep talking virgin
     
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    Soldier big cuntry's alias

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    lmfao
     
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

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    I mean, the foundation would be laid already wouldn't it?

    The only downside is if it's over then you lose a friend and a partner.
     
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    been mates with her for 8 years
     
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    Immy yikes

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    if things go sour then them 8 years maybe over
     
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    my thoughts exactly
     
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    is her p---- worth it?

    thats the question
     
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

    Jan 5, 2016
    well, if youre doing it wrong, you can break her heart nohomo


    dont do couple stuff, just f--- her and have fun. when its okay for you both, it will work
     
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    hmmmm
    i actually have no clue man
     
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  18. Maximus
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    solid advice man
     
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

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    You can still have a great "connection" AND f---, without having a serious relationship.
    You both have to be honest tho, getting emotional will k--- everything
     
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

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    Like any relationship communication is key.
    Talk to each other, talk about the possibility of losing your friendship and together work out how you both feel about it and weigh up if it's worth it for you both.
     
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