Best Posts: Is it okay to hookup with your best freind?

  1. lil uzi vert stan
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    Jan 5, 2016
    It's better to find someone you care about, respect, then love them... eventually they WILL become your best friend.

    Do it in that order. That said, one of my fiance's friends moved in with a girl as a roommate, they began to hook up, and are now married. soo it's just about maturity
     
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  2. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Jan 5, 2016
    like

    u fancy a brojob fam?
    :dead:
     
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  3. JFK
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    JFK Bleach on my t-shirt

    Jan 5, 2016
    If you're "best friends" with a girl (which is weird in itself), one person already wants to pursue a sexual/romantic relationship. They may not act on it, but purely platonic male/female relationships don't happen.
     
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  4. Worm
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    Worm Big Perm Big Worm

    Jan 5, 2016
    Is it actually possible to be friends with a girl and not want to sleep with her? I though that was just in TV?
     
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  5. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Jan 5, 2016
    Good luck OP

    Currently wondering myself if I should be making any sort of move but for differect reasons. Getting weird mixed signals from a bro and I'm not rly sure wtf is up since he's straight and has a gf... unless straight guys are always this weirdly homoerotic with each other, but he knows I'm gay so...
    :wth:
     
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  6. Final
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    Final

    Jan 5, 2016
    you shouldn't be questioning if it's okay to hookup
    let the natural course of your relationship work it's magic..

    if you guys f---, you f---... if not it's because the feeling isn't mutual
     
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  7. Juney Dark
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    Juney Dark Illness of Lost Opportunities

    Jan 5, 2016
    I'll post back in here later today

    :kdotbless:
     
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  8. sxneighty123
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    Jan 5, 2016
    If you're drunk you'd still end up banging her :manny:
     
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  9. boyz n the suburbs
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    boyz n the suburbs In my city, I'm a young God

    Jan 5, 2016
    :sadpepe: Hurt me more than DMX ever could....
     
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  10. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Jan 5, 2016
    i have heard soooooooooooo much worse in my life
     
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  11. Thad Castle
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    Thad Castle dafuq u sayin

    Jan 5, 2016
    You can still have a great "connection" AND f---, without having a serious relationship.
    You both have to be honest tho, getting emotional will k--- everything
     
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  12. Immy
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    Immy yikes

    Jan 5, 2016
    is her p---- worth it?

    thats the question
     
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  13. Ordinary Joel
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    Ordinary Joel Happiness begins when selfishness ends

    Jan 5, 2016
    I mean, the foundation would be laid already wouldn't it?

    The only downside is if it's over then you lose a friend and a partner.
     
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