If you give a s--- you will spend time with her other than sleeping in and playing video games or s--- it up and stay out late, especially since you don't have to work until 3 the next day.
Basically I'm not spending enough time with my gf. I work 3-10 5 times a week and on my days off I do my other job for a few hours. Most of the time I come home and play videogames/mess around on my phone and usually wake up at around 10/11am. I usually go to the gym before work or take my dog out and she works middle shifts which doesn't really allow for us to see each other in the mornings. She asks me to hang out after work quite often but I'm usually tired by then and just wanna go home =\
We hang out on the weekends like twice a week but she still feels lonely. We've talked about it and she says she'll learn to deal with but I can tell it bothers her a lot. Her friend and his gf always go to hang out together and I can tell she resents me for that. I don't know what to do. I know I could make the effort to hang out more after work and s--- but I'm tired.
It's not like I neglect her, we constantly text throughout the day but she wants more. I can't help but feel it's only gonna get worse once school starts.
She shouldn't have to "learn" to deal with not hanging out enough. I just feel like s--- about the whole thing.
Well i dont have a girlfriend atm but i kinda went through the same thing when i first started my job where i would barely have time to chill with my friends and s--- and when i did i was too exhausted.
Eventually u'll get used to the workload and will be less tired all the time, just tell her u need time to adjust to ur new job or w/e
