Jan 5, 2016 If you're "best friends" with a girl (which is weird in itself), one person already wants to pursue a sexual/romantic relationship. They may not act on it, but purely platonic male/female relationships don't happen.
Jan 5, 2016 @captain awesome These were the only pics I had currently on my phone..they are a couple years old, the first two are ex-gf's the last one is just a friend.. I took the pic in the middle. Spoiler
Jan 5, 2016 my best friend and I messed around a bit in highschool but it never turned into anything serious. Mainly because we didn't wanna ruin our friendship. I think it just depends on what both of you want.
Jan 5, 2016 Sometimes with a friend of the opposite sex it's hard to distinguish between having a really good friendship and actually wanting sex/a relationship/whatever. Obviously biological urges make things more complicated. It could go either way. Sometimes things happen after a drunk night and everything's fine afterward. But unless you sincerely want to be more than just friends it's not worth it to specifically go after sex. You're in your early 20s, there are tons of girls out there who wanna have sex just as much as you do.
Jan 5, 2016 I hooked up with my best guy friend once... and it was honestly some of the best sex I ever had....also it didn't mess with the relationship at all, we were very mature about it...I see no problem with it
Jan 5, 2016 i doubt it like he'd have to be f---ing narnia deep in that closet if he was rly straight seeming probably just reading into it too much cause he's so god d--- hot
Jan 6, 2016 If you have to ask about it then you obviously aren't ready/up for it and you will make things awkward so don't do it lol Regardless do not "talk to her about it" and have a serious discussion like "this is an important decision we must choose carefully" that just totally takes out any sexiness or excitement
Jan 6, 2016 I've f----- probably 4 close female friends, I'm still friends with 2 of them - probably going to be one of them after next week. The sex didn't ruin one of the friendships, it kind of did with one and possibly another one. I have a feeling it has and I'll find out soon. Friends with benefits is possible, it's more coincidence I'm not friends with the girls now more than anything. I wouldn't really directly attribute the sex to the falling out of any of the friendships.
