Is it okay to hookup with your best freind?

Started by Maximus, Jan 5, 2016, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Michael Myers
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    True, I learned the hard way lol. But everyone says, when they break up, 'we still gonna be friends' while most of the time that's bs

    @ihateme it's possible but I think in most cases at least one of the 2 starts to get feelings for the other
     
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    Final

    Jan 5, 2016
    you shouldn't be questioning if it's okay to hookup
    let the natural course of your relationship work it's magic..

    if you guys f---, you f---... if not it's because the feeling isn't mutual
     
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    definitely, everybody has the best intentions and no one is gonna be out right like 'nope, once it's done I want all of our history out the window and you out of my life'


    Sex can bring a certain emotional connection and if you already have a deep mental one I think it will be hard to not let those two cross.
     
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  5. Michael Myers
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    this is exactly what I meant. If you are strangers, and just have sex a few times, no problem. But if you already know that person it's only a matter of time before it grows into more. Not that it's a bad thing tho. Maybe there are people who pull it off, sticking to sex/friendship, but not easy
     
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    Cyreides gfy

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    Good luck OP

    Currently wondering myself if I should be making any sort of move but for differect reasons. Getting weird mixed signals from a bro and I'm not rly sure wtf is up since he's straight and has a gf... unless straight guys are always this weirdly homoerotic with each other, but he knows I'm gay so...
    :wth:
     
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    i cant imagine how hard itd be to be gay and fancy one of your mates
    youd have to be like ummm do you like penis?
    slip it into casual conversation

    yeah shes h--- keen to do s---
    im just like mehh
     
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    like

    u fancy a brojob fam?
    :dead:
     
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    hahashahahahahahahahahahahahah
     
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    i thiink gays are f---ing s---









    :emoji_wink: get it
    f---ing s---
    ha
    (hope you like my gay joke):ohno:
     
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    i have heard soooooooooooo much worse in my life
     
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    id vote for gay marriage in australia btw
    most gays are nicer than straight anyway
     
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    don't u guys have civil partnerships or something with a vote for marriage on the way this year or am i remembering wrong
     
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    I feel like I should be offended by this, even though it doesn't relate to me.
    Enjoy your report, s--- head.








    :emoji_wink: Get it?
    s--- head
    Ha
    (Hope you enjoy my offended joke) :ohno:
     
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    It's better to find someone you care about, respect, then love them... eventually they WILL become your best friend.

    Do it in that order. That said, one of my fiance's friends moved in with a girl as a roommate, they began to hook up, and are now married. soo it's just about maturity
     
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    ive got a joke about a whor-

    wanna hear it?

    @Boyz N The Suburbs

    hahahahahahahahah

    (get it? because youre a joke and a whor-):ohno:
     
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    boyz n the suburbs In my city, I'm a young God

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    :sadpepe: Hurt me more than DMX ever could....
     
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    I'm out :sadpepe::sadpepe::sadpepe:


    Imagine this post got a black and white filter on it. Sad af
     
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    dont leave
    you da man
     
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