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  1. icecube
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    If she ain't giving head then I'm outta there.
     
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    That’s how I got my last girl. I put on Just lose it and she wanted to freak.
     
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    Yeez Speak a little Chinese for 'Em Derek!

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    I'm interpreting this as Marsh confirming that he's literally a non verbal autist who walks around with tomato sauce around his mouth
     
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    Must enjoy g--- bangs and freak offs
     
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    Yeah, I feel like having compatible senses of humor is very important
     
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    You guys just aren’t Feminists like me.
     
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    it’s even funnier because they always say it about things that don’t involve gender. Like I was telling this chick about this book i was reading and she said “oh you like it cause you’re a man” like WHAT??:hoplease:

    I did try the woman thing once…. let’s just say it didn’t last long after that
     
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    I hate this s---. Sexism is only okay when it’s a woman being sexist to a man!!! Lmao what a joke. Either none of it’s okay or all of it’s okay. Imagine if you came back at her with “you’re just a woman”
     
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    I’ve sadly dealt with this multiple times but if she keeps saying “you’re just a man” during any argument. Like, if it’s their default response…yuck.

    My past 3 relationships have had this happen :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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    Hmmmm I’m really tryna think.

    If her love language isn’t touch that could be a problem. I love touching my girl as much as possible and love when she does the same to me. This isn’t even necessarily all about sex either, like if we can’t cuddle I don’t want it. If she doesn’t sit on my lap, I don’t want it.

    With that being said I don’t want her to be clingy. I love to compliment but I don’t want to have to constantly validate her every second of the day or else she starts feeling like I don’t love her. I don’t want her to have to constantly be around me every second of the day to the point where I can’t even leave to go to the bathroom. She needs to have at least some confidence in herself so I’m not always feeling like I’m more of a therapist than a boyfriend. I’d love to help her with any issues she has and let her vent, and I’d love to be there for her, but it gets to a point where it is way too draining and where she should just go see a therapist or something. There is only so much I can do as I am not a professional therapist.

    Smoking cigarettes is gross. Excessive alcohol drinking is gross. I’m fine with weed and psychedelics but no hard drugs like m---.

    If she cannot admit when she is wrong and apologize, that is a definite no-go. We are supposed to be adults, act like it. If you think I am always wrong and you are always right, you can f--- off.

    With that being said, we need to be able to have deep conversations about our relationship without it turning into arguments. If you can’t handle anything but surface level conversations, I don’t want it. I want to be able to be vulnerable. If you constantly dismiss my problems, you can f--- off.
     
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    Smocking

    Talks too much (won’t shut up)

    Tries to control you

    Lack of education towards people

    Talks about politics or religion

    :Em6:
     
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  12. Michael Myers
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    Basically; what are (for you) the most important no-go's when it comes to a new relationship.

    I don't mean physical btw, we already decided as a community that short hair is a NO. So s--- like tattoos, clothes etc is not what I mean.

    But I mean more like circumstances or character.

    For example:

    - drama with an ex boyfriend: everyone has their bagage, sure, but I think a new relationship should be a fresh start for both and I would never want to be dragged into a feud with an ex or other drama like that. People need to be ready for a new relationship imo, to an extent at least.
    - a woman believing in conspiracy theories. During the corona era I met (not dated) a girl that was fully into that bs and I was like 'hellll no, never lol'.
    - money issues. Not talking about a student debt or not having a huge income, but s--- that ties her too much to other people.
    - drug use of any kind


    Just a few, how about u guys??

    @LifeSXN
     
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