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  1. poopdogg
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    Future just dropped his album, it got
    me thinking about how we had a future
    together. I know I said I never liked you
    but you were the one for me... you
    don't have to respond. Tell your mama l
    miss her cooking
     
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    Anyone else?
     
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  3. Oldboy
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    U only live a good adult life of maybe 30 years? Otherwise ur a child or an old man. Live those 30 years the best u could and if someone is toxic to u its a huge huge waste to even throw away a day of those precious years

    get it done. Love is overrated. Remember that. Once u get someone u actually love and spend ur life with u will realize love is having a calm meal everyday with them. Its not whatever u having atm
     
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  4. poopdogg
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    Open up your whats app say i f----- your best friend and then throw away your phone
     
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Aug 26, 2022
    also, oddly, @poop dogg had the best advice itt. There's nothing shittier than being broken up with and not knowing wtf why. Be an adult and give your partner an explanation, or something tangible. There's no such thing as not finding the words.
    ...and being clear that it's over is critical. none of that "let's take a break" or "i've been thinking that maybe.." nonsense. let them know if you know.
     
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  6. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    May 15, 2022
    Just do it. It's not going to be easy, you'll both probably be emotional, but treat it like a bandaid.
     
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  7. poopdogg
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    We‘ll be brothers 4eveeer. What happens to 1 of us. Happens to all togetheeer and we‘ll be brothers 4 eveeer
     
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  8. FiveOh1
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    FiveOh1 Fallout

    May 19, 2022
    So I just went through this as well, there was no problems with the relationship and all the feelings were there. But we wanted different things out of life, for instance I wanted kids and she did not, I wanted to settle down at my home on my land I own and retire and raise cows and be able to get up and go on adventures(vacation) whenever I feel like and she wasn’t feeling that, she wanted me to move to Montana, I wanted to stay in Arkansas, So first we decided a trial break, to see if being apart was gonna make one of us decided we were willing to compromise on what we wanted. We were not, and after a couple weeks decided to fully end it.
    It wasn’t easier, and made harder by the break. So if you’re going to do it, like everyone else said just rip the bandaid off. Dragging it out only makes it worse and harder on you both.
     
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    Aug 28, 2022
    You can't do this to me man
     
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    Ripper Roo HIT ME HARD AND SOFT

    Aug 27, 2022
    AWWWWWWWOOOOOOOOOOGGGGAAAAA IM IN LOVE:emoji_heart_eyes::emoji_heart_eyes::emoji_heart_eyes:
     
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    Evad Balls

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    Need
     
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    Maaaan I could go for a cute country girl but I dunno about this farmers only stuff now.
    I also think I’d prefer me a nice goth girl, I’m convinced that they make the world go round.
     
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    Hoodville g--- what up
     
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    Bro you love her i understand that but if you yourself admit that you have to break up that means you have to do it or you will regret it later trust me brother. But do it like that. Go to her talk about the things that went wrong in yalls relationship and make clear that you want to end the relationship. This will clear your head more. If you just break up you are going to think about it even more.
     
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    @LifeSXN I need help

    Maybe you can share your experiences / what went wrong in your relationships
     
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    Worm Big Perm Big Worm

    Aug 26, 2022
    Get back out there homey https://www.farmersonly.com/
     
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  18. poopdogg
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    Sit back and listen to your momma cheeks clappin. All answers you seek are are hidden throughout the c-m on her lips. Listen and analyze; i‘ll come in her.
    @joeyp363
     
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  19. joeyp363
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    May 16, 2022
    Sit back and listen to Kenny’s new album. All answers you seek are are hidden throughout the album. Listen and analyze; it’ll come to you.
     
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    May 16, 2022
    At the end of the day, you gotta do what’s best for you. There’s really no amount of advice that can guide you through this. It’s going to s---, you’re going to hurt for a while but just understand it’s for the best.
     
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