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  1. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Oct 3, 2017
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    Ideally I'd want a fwb. I've known her since freshman year but the only reason I haven't made a surefire attempt before is because she was always off and on with the same guy throughout high school. She's cool enough as a friend but a full blown relationship isn't ideal because I'm away at college.
     
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  2. Poohdini
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    Sep 29, 2017
    Overthinking a little bit. For me the easiest and most efficient way was to socialize with these girls is in class. If there's an attractive chick in there, ask if you can sit next to them and initially keep the convo light and about the class. If she's responsive then try to get a little more personal but not too deep. When you get past that, see if she wanna grab something to eat after class and go from there.
     
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  3. Deadpool
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    Deadpool the end

    Sep 27, 2017
    Meet chicks through classmates or through friends u make, the random approaching can work in certain environments but school isn’t one I would recommend just let them chicks go to class b
     
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  4. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Sep 27, 2017
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    I started college this semester and idk how to go about tryna get chicks here. I know y'all are probably like "wtf college is the place where p---- is the easiest!". Though the thing is I don't really know anyone here and just randomly approaching women seems creepy. Maybe I'm overthinking this but I just don't know wtf to do.

    Plus I thought I struck gold early on but I got 180'd on in the most s-----y way.

    Advice?
     
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  5. Poohdini
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    Sep 27, 2017
    Caught her off the rebound like Ben Wallace
     
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  6. yungkanata
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    yungkanata LostInTheSauce

    Sep 22, 2017
    f--- b------s n get money. nun else.
     
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  7. Boss
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    Boss /r/KanyeLeaks

    Jul 30, 2017
    Be yourself. If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are, she's not worth your time. Along with that, even if you keep faking it, your true self will eventually come out and she may react differently to that, in a good or bad way.
     
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  8. Boss
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    Boss /r/KanyeLeaks

    Jul 1, 2017
    this s--- ded

    who needs advice i am the master
     
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  9. PistolPistol
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    PistolPistol Inappropriate? So be it. I don't see it..

    May 17, 2017
    Yo first page in and I'm crying

    :drakelaugh2:
     
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  10. DKC
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    DKC shortygonletmecrush

    May 17, 2017
    There's not really any surefire way to know for certain. People are different. Some people are more straightforward than others. I will say, as you become more confident you will get better at knowing. The fact that you said you never know when a girl is into you says that you need to build up your confidence, and I'm not talking s--- it all. It takes time and experience. I look back at myself when I was young in high school and it's so obvious there were more girls than I thought were into me but I wasn't confident in myself as a likable person so I didn't think they were into me and didn't make any moves.

    Think what you do if you are interested in someone. If they find excuses to talk to you, they laugh at your jokes a lot, and sit/stand by you during social gatherings that's usually a good sign. Don't listen to any bs like "if a girl twirls her hair it means she likes you." Just use common sense.
     
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  11. DKomamura
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    DKomamura #Istillpreferasians

    May 16, 2017
    Ty dude but i stopped using those apps pretty fast i think thats not my style of getting girls i do like to meet people in irl first
     
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  12. Macca
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    Macca @

    Apr 26, 2017
    Hahaha thanks @Alchemist34 , you made my day!
     
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  13. Michael Myers
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    Mar 29, 2017
    @Mike Tyson the girl I was talking about, the new co worker

    So this week I started talking to her a lot more, but just casual stuff. And I asked her to grab lunch sometime. She said something like yeah fine! But luckily I didn't ask a specific day.. because today I heard she is in a relationship from someone else.

    Really felt like I dodged the bullet, like before it could have gotten awkward lol.
     
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  14. Views
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    Views New nikka, just new nikka

    Mar 17, 2017
    @Poohdini late as f---, but basically asked her out, shes fine, but later flaked. havent really pursued after. back to them streets
     
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  15. GustavoJaxReloaded
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    GustavoJaxReloaded

    Mar 14, 2017
    it's not creepy to slide in to someone's Dm if you don't know her... it's called give it a shot... I have met cool girls doing this and even asked for pictures days ahead ..and...they sent! you have just to be polite, and act like a cool guy..
     
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  16. Poohdini
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    Poohdini MVP MVP

    Mar 13, 2017
    FB underrated, I had a chick add me because she's friends with my cousin & his girl and saw me mention him in a post.

    Not the preferred method but if I have under 10 mutual friends with her I usually pursue it.
     
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  17. Mike Tyson
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    Mike Tyson big cuntry's alias

    Mar 13, 2017
    my success rate for insta is the highest because i usually go for no connection females. so most of the shots i've thrown up have been on instagram. followed by snap, followed by twitter.

    never made a splash off of a Facebook DM, never will either.
     
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  18. Poohdini
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    Mar 10, 2017
    Honestly it sounds like youre just a rebound to her. One occasion, fine, but more than once? Walk away.
     
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  19. Future Vandross
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    Future Vandross

    Mar 10, 2017
    -go on a walk
    -go to free events
    -invite her to your place
     
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  20. Views
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    Views New nikka, just new nikka

    Mar 10, 2017
    cool man, thanks. will report back if something comes out of it
     
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