Jul 13, 2017

Tbh your situation sounds way better than mine and a lot of people I've known, you have money, a good job and an overall nice situation other than your lack of confidence.

Other than some of the advice in this thread, only thing I can suggest is continue doing stuff to build your confidence.. That can be continuing to progress in your job/career or maybe even being friends with women and then you can gain more confidence/experience that way, and if you get along well with one of these female friends then potentially consider dating her or maybe she'll introduce you to some friends and you'll find someone to date from there. Plus if you're friends with this woman for a while and she trusts you etc, then she'll tell her friend(who you'd be dating in this hypothetical) that you're a good guy and can be trusted and all that.

Or even if you don't feel you have the confidence to try to be friends with or approach new women right now, at least keep being social and doing stuff with your guy friends cuz they'll probably eventually introduce you to some women or you'll meet some at a party or whatever.

In short, just continue to grow and network both in your career and as a person and you'll eventually find someone you're interested in and someone that's interested in you.

 

Jul 13, 2017

Yo if you're not in a serious relationship there are no uncrossable lines. That's what being 23 is about, habitually stepping over imaginary lines til you find the sweet spot.

 

Jul 13, 2017

Is gay slang for alcoholic haha

 

Jul 13, 2017

 

Jul 13, 2017

I lost my confidence for a bit when I was in my early 20s. Life will humble your a--- real quick if you don't do it yourself.

 

Jul 13, 2017

You keep telling yourself that old man

 

Jul 13, 2017

people only say that because you're unattractive and have never had a girlfriend

 

Jul 14, 2017

p---- is p----, just get money

 

Jul 14, 2017

f--- that man, stop stressing. 23 is nothing.

For now just do what makes you happy. The ball & chain will come with time.

My brother still lives at home with our parents, he's never had a girlfriend and he's in his 30's now. Now HE'S f-----.

 

Jul 13, 2017

real

the friendzone isn't real, ppl who say theyre stuck in it usually let thmselves be used

 

Jul 13, 2017

Oh and tell them you love the movie Moana

 

Jul 13, 2017

Tell them you post on Section80 and they'll wanna smash instantly

 

Jul 13, 2017

Don't worry about what your siblings/friends are doing. Everybody has a different path.

Honestly you're off to a good start, good hygiene, bankroll, and nice whip.

So regarding these chicks you talk to, give me some context on how the convo goes down and when you start realizing you've been friend-zoned.

 

Jul 13, 2017

You're only f----- if this is your attitude. You're actually in a a great position.

Read the book Models by Mark Manson asap and turn your outlook on life and women around.


By the way, hopping into a LTR at 23 is the best way to miss out on life. Your dad couldn't be more wrong.

 

Jul 13, 2017

But what is talking about it even gonna do other than shatter his f---ing confidence like it obviously did?

Do you think the dads gonna go "hey son, you should get a gf because I'm worried about you" and the kid's just going to go "oh s--- you're right the thought never crossed my mind" and just magically find a girl?

Some s--- just doesn't need to be spoken about, I'd tell my dad to mind his f---ing business tbh

 

Jul 13, 2017

Born again virgin checking in.


It doesn't get better, abort mission, start watching anime.

 

Jul 13, 2017

Hookers and escorts are NOT the same thing

 

Jul 13, 2017

Then you definitely have a terrible personality.