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Do you have/want childeren?

Started by Michael Myers, May 13, 2021, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. DKC
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    DKC hank trill

    May 15, 2021
    When I think about having kids I imagine having 3-4. Obviously that might change once I see how much work having even one kid is lol but my family is small and splintered so I always liked the idea of having a bigger family.
     
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  2. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    May 16, 2021
    I have zero interest in having children, for many reasons
     
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  3. Wreckless
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    Wreckless

    May 16, 2021
    Not opposed to having 1 or 2. But everything would have to fall into place. And i've never been a fan of having children late in life. If it doesn't happen in the next 3-4 years it just wasn't meant to be.
     
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  4. Wreckless
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    Wreckless

    May 16, 2021
    Tbf bro there will never be a perfect world. If that's your main reason stopping you from having children. And it won't change next year or even 15 years from now. It wouldn't have been a better time to have a child 100 years ago either.

    There has always been corruption, mass killings and f----- up things happening in the world no matter what time you were born in. And there has been much worst times in history to have children. Imagine having a child during WW2.
     
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  5. Wreckless
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    Wreckless

    May 16, 2021
    d---. Michael Myers and Jesse Pinkman.
     
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  6. Detroit24
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    May 16, 2021
    If we all go back to our lineage/ancestors....people were having 4-10 kids easssyy lol times do change....don’t see many women being ok with that many kids these days in the western world at least....I’m sure it depends where in the world and culture/religion
     
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  7. King of Kings
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    King of Kings Who Dey

    May 16, 2021
    Plan on having some. get the first one and see if I wanna keep going or call it a day.
     
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  8. Altereagle416
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    May 17, 2021
    Nope. I want to end the cycle of trauma
     
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  9. Detroit24
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    Detroit24

    May 18, 2021
    I’m on the fence personally...I come from a very dysfunctional family...didn’t have greatest childhood...has made me be negative towards family....but part of me would like to experience it, the other part doesn’t ...it’s tricky...def a full time job, if you are going do well...the more you put into it, hoping the child turns out great in your eyes...lots of sacrifice as a parent...if you lead a busy life and don’t put in the work and attention, lots of issues can arise even if you do it can still arise lol...it’s great when your kids are babies(besides crying and having to adjust your life) but when they get older and have their own influences and experiences and thoughts hopefully you can be proud or teach them or even be friends with them....

    A parent should love their child regardless of how they turn out...but lots of times that doesn’t happen....unconditional love, teaching from mistakes and being friends are important...nothing is guaranteed and you have no control over certain things may play out...the circle of life continues...I think you and your partner need to be in a positive situation so hopefully a positive outcome happens...,lots of people out there should not be parents unfortunately....they make their situation worse and the child’s too...
     
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  10. Step Daddy
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    Step Daddy

    May 18, 2021
    Fukn hate kids
     
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  11. Step Daddy
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    Step Daddy

    May 18, 2021
    This was because of the extreme childhood death rates. The average births per women had to be something like 6-8 for the population to grow. This is why there was massive cultural pressure for women to constantly produce babies. Women pretty much spend their entire reproductive years pregnant or nursing an infant. Us men really have it easy.
     
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  12. Detroit24
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    Detroit24

    May 18, 2021
    100% agree...we definitely have it easier...I mean men is supposed to make the $$ if we’re going back since women couldn’t.... women these days have more options and more rights, more $...not every women is meant to be a good mother or want to sacrifice their life to children...and you have career driven women as well that don’t have the time...

    either way lots of sacrifice for woman and men who want to be parents....in order to try to make it work...you don’t want kids to be a burden on your life and be resentful towards them....and make it as fair as possible...at least in the western world

    On the other hand...plenty of women out there that expect to be taken care by the man 100% financially as they take care of the child...depends the individuals
     
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    May 18, 2021
    Ehhh. I don’t particularly like children. If I ever have any, I just hope I’m not one of those parents that posts millions of photos of their kids all over social media. Jesus Tapdancing Christ.
     
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  14. Blaxmith802
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    Blaxmith802

    May 18, 2021
    I got 3 kids and are my entire life. I would die for them but Thanks to my c---- of an ex tho I ain't allowed with in a hundred yards of any of em. Sucks but ill always love em from a far...
     
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    May 23, 2021
    What happened
     
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    May 24, 2021
    Did you have you're daughter??
     
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    May 24, 2021
    Yoo @Carnifex loving the hommage!
     
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  18. CARNIFEX
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    CARNIFEX Get The Strap

    May 24, 2021
    I have a badass Michael tattoo from the original Halloween of him busting through the closet door
     
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    May 24, 2021
    @Michael Myers loves to bust thru the closet door too, such a creep
     
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    Well someone has to get u out of it

    #got 'em
     
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