Deal breakers when it comes to a women/guy

Started by Michael Myers, Sep 17, 2023, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Michael Myers
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    What personalty traits or other aspects of someone are dealbreakers when it comes to (not) wanting to start a relationship w someone?
     
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    Ripper Roo radical optimism out now

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    If she’s one of those women who hate video games, I don’t want her. I’ve enjoyed them my whole life, I’m not gonna drop something I love just because you think I’m a loser as if I’m supposed to care. These types of people are thankfully rare with how common technology is now but they somehow still exist. I fully understand if they have an issue with someone who plays video games all day and nothing else, but then the real issue there wouldn’t actually be video games and that hate is misdirected
     
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    Poor hygiene, no ambition. Ya gotta smell good and have a goal in life of some sort
     
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    Not giving BJ's is a dealbreaker.
     
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    Controlling b------s

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    Playing videogames should be fine as long as u aren't some fat f--- gaming till 3 am and lying in bed all day lol. I mean, I can understand if someone wouldn't be interested in a person like that.

    But I agree w your point; I think, aside from a life together, a healthy relationship also means you can do your own thing. If either one is totally dependent on the other, I don't think thats a good thing. Not for me at least, I need space to do my own thing.

    Other things;

    - using drugs/ criminal activities
    - kids and angry ex involved: I'm 31 so its not strange if I meet someone with a kid. And then, in most cases, has an ex. But I don't want to get caught up in other people's fights/problems
    - smoking. Except when its like at parties
    - tattoos, if she's full of them
     
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    ^ Late night gaming >>>>>
     
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    Girls with kids is pretty annoying. Lucky for us less women are having kids these days :jaydaps:


    I keep seeing girls around me have 2 or 3 and then break up with the guy while them modafakas still young as s--- :hoplease:then they go find a fool that will help her raise them :lmaooo:
     
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    not respecting that you need time to yourself.

    I can't do codependency. it's unhealthy to never spend time away from your bf/gf imo. These types of people often tend to jump from one relationship to the next cuz they're scared to be alone.
     
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    Thanks for repeating my post bro. Aside from your love for playboi's you're a smart man!

    100% agree obviously. Its important, when ur single, to build a life for your own where someone can fit in. Not make a potential gf (or bf) 'your life'.
     
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    Yeah its your own choice if you know she has kids. But if there's too much drama already I pass tbh even if that makes me selfish
     
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    Not trying to be a father of someone else’s kid lmao
     
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    lol my b I missed that
     
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    and yeah the way I always put it is:

    you and your bf/gf should enhance each others' lives, not BE each others' lives.
     
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    Ripper Roo radical optimism out now

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    If she doesn’t like touching me a lot or complimenting me. Those are my love languages right there. Obviously I don’t need it to be to an excessive degree, but if she goes days without wanting to even hug me and never says good things about me then I don’t want it.
     
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    - mentioning Andrew Tate/ Jordan Peterson/ Ben Shapiro et al in approving ways
    - mentioning being high value
    - conservative
    - republican
    - religious
    - a bigot; being racist, homophobic, transphobic, misogynistic, classist ect
    - being social media obsessed
     
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    Big agree on the last one!!
     
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